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Welcome to Legal Age






Hi! So, I officially on my legal age!
I'm blessed because I still live here with tons of sparkle and happiness. So, I'll write a letter to younger me and girls out there.

Dear young girl, in front of a mirror, you don't need to please every-single-one, because you can't never pleased the whole world. Fight for someone who really deserves your sweat and tears, don't cry over someone who doesn't deserve you. 

Choose your priorities carefully, and make them happy. Surround yourself with positive people, who will tell you the truth plus criticize you whenever you need those slap-words and the ones that validate your feelings. The ones who tell you how precious you are and its okay to be different, its okay to be sad, its okay to be sarcastic and grumpy and cranky, its okay to be you and embrace it!



You know, it's okay not to be happy every time, you can't always control your feelings. You don't need to press yourself and try too hard to be/look happy. Its acceptable to cry alone in midnight and wish nobody knows how much you've been suffered, and also acceptable to cry in front of your besties and tell them how's your feelings. 

Please, learn to love yourself bit more than you love anyone else because at the end you need to consider your own happiness too. Don't rely your happiness to others, because you must be the one that you can rely on. Don't change yourself for anyone else, change yourself for the sake of your own happiness. You don't need to be as bright as social standards, be bright version of yourself. 






Read lots of books, educate yourself. Go discuss many things with someone smarter, you'll learn from the pros. Do many things you're into on with all your heart. If you love drawing go draw on your sketch books, if you love writing go write stories or make a blog, if you love singing go sing and make pretty melody, if you love photography go photograph things you like. Let your imagination free. 

Write your dreams on your wall and you need to work your ass off if you want to reach them, you can't be lazy and do nothing! 

Consider yourself lucky of many things you were born with some people maybe would kill for them but you're living your life with complaining "I don't have this brand". You need to remember, you don't need to spent all your money for shopping 'brand'. You'll learn later that good outfits can be put together with any budget and still look fashionably amazing. Anyway, please don't be lazy to wash your face and do skincare routine every-single-night, I know it takes time but your skin will thank me later. 

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  1. AnonymousAug 16, 2017, 6:16:00 PM

    I randomly found ur ig, then randomly fall into ur blog, and i always love ur words :))) thanks for always remind everyone its okay to be different ��

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    1. MalisaAug 29, 2017, 10:06:00 PM

      Thank you for your feedback, and I hope you have a great day!

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  2. Ayu DamayanthiAug 20, 2017, 8:22:00 AM

    Happy birthday dear sweet you! Couldnt agree more! For everygirl out there go educate yourself with anykind or anyways.
    Ohya, buat Zara 02 sweet vanillanya tetep enak kok dipakai di cuaca panas, Bali even hot-er. LOL. Aku sering pakai ke RS selama koass gak terlalu bikin pusing karena ada sedikit aroma musk-nya, beda sama Body Shop punya, itu manis banget sih :))

    Salam kenal btw, lets stay in touch!



    xoxo
    ayu

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    1. MalisaAug 29, 2017, 10:08:00 PM

      Hi, thank you for your feedback. Kalo parfum buat special occasions sendiri kakak pake parfum apa? Kakak ada rekomendasi parfum manis dan seger gitu ngga?

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  3. Belén Serrano.Aug 21, 2017, 10:17:00 AM

    Those pictures are lovely dear, you look gorgeous! Have a nice week. xx

    My last post here: http://fallingforvogue.blogspot.com.es/2017/08/tropical-kimono.html

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