Finding Yourself

People can be lost sometimes. Either after facing some troubles or getting through hard situations. At this moment, we must stop for awhile and looking back at everything we've done before. Trying to picture every-single-thing in a bigger view and spotted the missing pieces of puzzle to get things back in shape and see the problems with another perspectives.

It might be hard and confusing, sometimes feel like everything so vague. It probably takes months or years, for finding yourself and where you belong. No need to compare yourself to others. This is YOUR crucial time, for focusing on yourself. It's time for making dialogue with yourself about what you've done, what you gonna do later. During this time, you might be crying silently every night but then conceal your sadness in the next morning with bright smile. Or maybe you just fade away from your social life, and want to keep everything for yourself. It's okay, for choosing yourself over anyone else.

At this hard time, you will realize many things. You will realize what you really want, about the art of forgiving, let everything that hung in your heart go, at the end you will find yourself and people who deserves you.

Inner lace top: Unbranded

Kimono: From Japan

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